The Stink of Failure

I now believe that timing is everything. I also believe that our "mentality" can be read by other people. Have you ever been able to tell that someone is sad, angry, or joyful without a word being said? I am a firm believer that our vibe and self-confidence (or lack thereof) is something that the opposite sex can sense. With that said, I have had times when it seemed that no woman would have anything to do with me. Why? They could sense that I was down, depressed, or lacked all confidence.

So with this in mind, there are a few pointers I found especially helpful when I was in a slump with the ladies.

1) Get out of the goddamn house (mom's basement, studio apartment..whatever). I realized that you will never meet anyone by hiding in your crappy domicile and feverishly masturbating (don't lie...sinner). Get your ass out there, meet people, even if it's only other dudes or people in relationships. Make friends, make contacts. You're miserable because you're choosing to shut yourself off and feel shitty.

2) Sorry but some women aren't going to like you. No matter how tall, short, fat, skinny, or anything else you are...some women, for whatever reason...aren't going to want ANYTHING TO DO WITH YOU. This isn't because they are hot or better than you, they just won't. Accept this, it's nothing personal and move the fuck on.

3) Thousands...and I mean TENS of THOUSANDS of women (or men) will want you. Listen, I've never met you... but this is just simple math: statistically, some people are going to like you...(I know, I don't get it either, but they will). Do you know how? By stopping being a beta loser and living life. Meet some friends and do some shit that doesn't involve a computer screen.

4) Not to ruin the ending, but this is it. How many minutes do you want to spend worrying about things that may NEVER happen? How much time do you want to spend worrying about things which have already happened? Breathe in, breathe out...move the fuck on. Can you fix what happened? Hell no. Do you know what will happen? Probably not, dummy. So take care of this day and enjoy it.

Have some balls, take a chance.